fr3sco asked: i've been a thing with this guy since december but we never even held hands or anything (it wasnt official but we liked eachother and stuff) and he's never had a gf or anything. im starting to get bored and sometimes annoyed with him. how should i tell him nicely that id rather be friends. i feel like he's gonna be hurt:(

Don’t mess about with this chap, tell him straight. If you wait and he makes a move, you back off, then he is going to feel stupid, which will hurt even more.

No one can accuse you of leading him on, if your straight with him from the off, you can still be mates, just make it very clear to him, thats all you want(: -Highclassswank

Anonymous asked: Okay so continuing on.. I don't want to lose either of these groups because they are all amazing people. The other group doesnt really care if I dont sit with them because they arnt 'drama queens' but they are some of my best friends and I want to sit with them. I know this is a really small deal but its been going on for a while now, thanks oxox

okay so i get you, i have the same problem. really there is nothing you can do if your friends don’t accept that you have another group of people that you like as well. i’d try and talk to them and if they are your friends they’ll understand and stop getting upset over it. hope it helped :) xx

Anonymous asked: At school I have two friendship groups, they are completely different. They like eachother but it's like theyre from different worlds. I mainly sit with one of the groups because they get really cut if I sit with the others. Like if I sit with the other group for one lunch break they get annoyed with me and are all like 'oh hey stranger' once they even made a code word to say then all laugh like it was there inside joke. Hold on theres more coming i ran out of words

Anonymous asked: I'm bothered by this person making fun of people suffering from epilepsy spasms, any advice?

the people making fun of epileptic people are probably not aware of the severity of this matter. make them realize that and if they don’t stop there will be consequences. they can’t make fun of such a serious thing, they just cant sweetheart

Anonymous asked: .me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months and yesterday i found out he was cheating on me for two weeks. (it was a long distance relationship). he said he only did it because he felt lonely, i'm happy and sad that hes gone. i feel so bad too, i broke up with him and we got in a huge fight yesterday and he said he's going to kill himself february 5th, this morning i tried texting him for two hours trying to help but i only made things worse. i still love him but he doesnt love me

first of all he can’t do this to you. he’s putting pressure on you and that makes you feel sad lovely. you need to talk to him face to face and clear things out, help him if you can. he clearly needs help but you may not be enough, maybe he needs a professional. suicide is not a joke. you need to move on sweetheart he’s no good to you

quelquun--ma--dit asked: Its one of those things where i really want to tell him. But yet i dont want him to know. And i really want to confront my best (girl) friend about the whole flirting deal with him without seeming possessive and bitchy. How should i confront her?

When I have problems or issues with my friends, I usually set up a time to go and talk one on one. Make a Starbucks date or meet after school; just make sure it’s one on one. Then, when you two are alone, tell her how you feel. Honesty is important in friendship, and if she really cares about you, she’ll understand where you are coming from.
I just dealt with a similiar situation; my friend and I both fell for the same guy and I was afraid it’d ruin our frienship; but I confronted her and we talked about it. Things worked out.

Hope that helped(:

Anonymous asked: One of my friends killed herself the other night. And her boyfriend encouraged it and helped her buy the gun.

what was wrong? if her boyfriend knew it it must have been something that had been going on for a while, am i right? talk to me whenever you like i really want to know what happened. how are you holding up?  how did her boyfriend encouraged her?

Anonymous asked: so i know for a fact that this guy who is two grades above me likes me A LOT. i really like him, but i'm not sure i like him that much. he asked me to homecoming and i said no... he's also really good friends with my older brother (who is in his grade) which just makes everything that much more awkward. we always talk online, and we see each other in person all the time, but its just so much more awkward. haaaalp what do i do?

if you like him then go after him! it’s totally worth it & don’t care what others think! if you don’t, then make it clear you want to be friends xo